Smartphone Mom

Well folks, 2 weeks ago I finally upgraded my phone and got my first smartphone. Whew. This is something I've pushed back against for years now- cell phone companies giving you no choice but to own one. I hate technology. I just do.. I hate that it distracts parents, is a substitute for in person interactions,  and that it's used so much more now than parks and playgrounds. So, because I am cheap and really want to be the best parent I can be, until now I have decided not to own one.

Don't get me wrong,  I know the Internet is fun and that technology can be used  to do so much good; in my opinion the good is definitely outweighed by the bad. Regardless,  I finally upgraded!  I really, really wanted a nice camera in my phone,  and it's only costing us $10 more a month. It has been super fun to be able to take pictures of my kids on all the different adventures we go on. But then again I ask myself why we need 30 pictures of our children each time we take then to the park. Even though I'm there with my kids, I find myself not really playing with or giving my full attention to them because I'm chasing them trying to get the perfect picture.

Is anyone else bothered by how much technology and social media we are exposing ourselves to? Last week I heard on the radio that the average person uses over 8 hours of technology a day,  between tv, phones, gaming, tablets,  and computers. We sleep less than that. I don't know how well the study was conducted or any details, b ut it bothers me. Enjoy your friends.  Play with your kids. Go for a walk. Turn off the TV and read. Sing out loud. I say that as I'm typing this blog on my phone ;) Technology is amazing.  I love that I can talk to my best friend any time and tell her how awesome my run was or what terrors my children are being. I love that I can see pictures and blogs of family and friends all around the world. I love that I can access any church scriptures,  talks, or messages any time and any where. It's such a blessing.. and a curse. Oh, and don't even get me started on #filters.... I enjoyed this article today about parenting without distractions :) Something to think about
I know we're all trying to be our very best selves,   but I just feel like we could all try a little harder to put down the phone and enjoy the beauty that surrounds us. And now I will do just that ♡